I'm not a naturally hospitable person. I like to be alone. I don't like inviting extra work. But the Lord has been showing me in quite overt ways that I need to fix my attitude in this area.
Our neighbors one building down have one son, who is Levi's age. From what I can tell, they don't have many/any friends, and they are a bit... strange. The dad, who is really nice (and talkative), has a long beard and long hair and at one point had his truck covered in at least 100 bumper stickers (he took many off; there are probably a dozen now). The mom is a high school teacher, and she is just kind of weird. She says whatever is on her mind--often something rude. She walks onto our front patio and even into our house uninvited and lets her son do the same. Whenever she sees that the kids and I have come out to go on a walk, get the mail, or ride bikes, they come out too. I have a very hard time liking this woman and find myself ducking my head or hurrying inside to avoid her.
But the thing is... I know she is just lonely. I know she is not a believer. I know how I should act toward her--but I just don't want to. That is my fault.
This post hits the nail on the head. God is pointedly showing me someone who needs love and attention--things that I can give. I really don't want to give them, but that is no excuse!
Writing all of this out is a way to hold myself accountable: now I have to be intentional toward this girl. First on the list: inviting them to dinner. I'll let you know how it goes.
So impressed with you, friend. I'll keep this in my prayers and try to stop letting my annoyance show through when you share about this neighbor :0)
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful post!! I hope she turns out to be a friend. The husband sounds a bit queer! Good luck. L&K N
ReplyDeleteVery convicting post and SUCH a good reminder for me right now! I have a couple people in my life, like you, who I don't really LOVE interacting with, yet I know God has put them in my life for a reason. It's so hard to love others sometimes, especially when we feel we just cannot possibly give any more emotional energy to anyone. But, like you said, with this neighbor, it's just a matter of giving time and attention, even in short bursts like when you go get the mail. Thanks for your honesty. xoxo
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