This is our life

Before & After

Before, an out-of-date outfit:



After, a ruffled dress for church:



I've been getting ready for the MOPS boutique this Thursday. I feel like I'll be able to relax a little bit after it's over, and then maybe I'll get a few days to make some of the Christmas gifts I've been thinking about!

Thanksgiving 2009

hank you, God, for

• my wonderful husband, who works hard every day and then comes home to be an amazing dad.
• our children.
• our children's health and safety.
• providing for us beyond our need, often in miraculous ways (e.g., where did the bill for Levi's 10-day hospital stay go? We never received one and were told everything was paid).
• our family and friends.
• our church.

ucy is better! Phew! Yesterday was one of those back-and-forth days for me. One minute I'd think she was going to be fine, but the next I'd think we should take her in for IV fluids. I actually made the call to Jon to come home (instead of going to his basketball game) so one of us could take her in, but while he was on his way she ate a good portion of dinner and really perked up. I told Jon to go to his game and Lucy was fine. :) Today is nearly back to normal. Thank you to all who prayed.

Chubby Baby Car Seat Cover guest giveaway

I'd love to win the Chubby Baby Car Seat Cover. Levi will be switching soon into our Britax, which is nice but has seen prettier days!

Luce

Please say a prayer for Lucy today. It's the third day in a row she hasn't been able to keep anything down (anything at all). I'm taking her to the doctor this afternoon. Poor girl!



Update: the doctor gave Lucy a prescription for Zofran, an anti-nausea medication. Sounds like Lucy just has the stomach flu, but I think she just gets stomach-related illnesses really bad. She has been keeping liquids down since she took the medicine.

Little Levi

evi had his 12-month check-up last week; he weighed just under 18 pounds, the little guy! That places him below the chart percentile-wise. I've been thinking about making my own high-fat, nutritious drink for him to have in place of milk, since we don't give our kids milk. There isn't much out there resource-wise for this sort of thing. (And I'd rather not give Levi Pediasure, which is for older toddlers, contains milk protein, and is expensive.) I'll let you know how my research goes!

Making family fun

ast week, our speaker at MOPS spoke on infusing fun into the family. Her ideas really hit home with me. I loved that so many of her suggestions didn't cost money or even lots of effort; it was more about an attitude shift. I went home the day of her talk and used one of the ideas: a dinosaur hunt. (OK, I didn't use dinosaurs; I used toy cars.) When the kids were napping, I took 20-25 toy cars and hid them out on our front patio. After nap, the kids got to go on a car hunt! (Lucy didn't find it that fun, but she was still in her post-nap funk.) Nate loved it. It took me less than 5 minutes, but it changed the late afternoon grumpy time into fun time.

The speaker also asked us to remember what was fun in our own childhoods, and I remembered some great stuff.

• The sucker fairy at Hanshill. Looking back, it was so silly, but I LOVED the idea that the sucker fairy came overnight and planted those suckers (lollipops) in the front yard rocks at Hanshill. All of the cousins would run out and pick our suckers in the morning.
• The "performances" my friends and Greg and I would create. I remember being so serious about the musical we had made up to perform for our moms (Miss Kathy and Mama); my friend Katy and I had to keep correcting Greg over and over on his pronunciation of "the," since I think that was the only line we gave him. Haha!
• Sleeping in a tent in the back yard with Greg in Little Rock. Well, I remember starting off in the back yard but then being too scared (I think of bears), so we got moved to the deck. :)

Here are some more ideas that I have implemented or plan to implement:

• Play "library." Set up 10-12 books along the wall outside your child's room, and he/she gets to be librarian. I've done this twice with Nate, and although he's a bit old for it, he still likes when I pretend to be a customer and ask, "Mr. Librarian, I'm looking for a book that has bears in it... Do you have anything for me?" Then he goes and finds Goldilocks, etc.
• Family movie night. Plenty of people do this already, but make it even more fun by dressing in your PJs, printing "tickets" off the computer, setting up a "concession stand" on the dining table with popcorn, apple juice, candy, etc.
• Our house is already full of Daddy fun time (tickling, wrestling, getting tossed onto the couch). But the other evening when we were out to dinner, I asked Jon what fun things he remembered from his childhood. His first thoughts were blanket rides and popcorn nights. The next night, he gave Nate and Lucy their first blanket rides:
  
  
  
  

• Our speaker spoke about ice-cream kidnaps: put the kids to bed as usual, but 5 minutes later, come in and say, "Everyone up! In the car!" and drive to your local ice cream shop for surprise ice cream. (Make it especially memorable by having mom and dad wear their pajamas too.) We wouldn't exactly do this, since Nate can't have ice cream, but it made me think about doing a Christmas-tree-light kidnap. Each year, some time close to Christmas, we could surprise the kids after bed time with a car ride to view all the cool Christmas lights around town.
• Forts. It's universal; kids love playing in covered areas. Cover the kitchen table with blankets and put Legos or Barbies underneath for a fun afternoon surprise play location.
• Heads or tails walk. Go on a walk and bring a coin. At each intersection/street, toss the coin. If it's heads, go left; if tails, go right (or heads this side of the street, tails that side; heads skip, tails march).
• Camp out in the family room, tent and all (or at least sleeping bags).

Aren't those ideas fun and simple?--and so easy to accomplish. Ultimately, they give our kids a sense of belonging. Fun traditions help them feel like they are part of something cool, a family "team," and that will be so valuable!

Dinner update

n Monday evening, our first family dinner, I sent a text message to Jon at 6:15: "If this is how family dinners are going to go, then I am never doing it again."

I had set dinner time for 6:30 and made sure to give filling snacks to the kids around 4:30-5:00. But the fussing, whining, leg-pulling coming from the younger two was maybe going to drive me crazy. Levi is at the stage where he can pull up and cruise, so he finds me in the kitchen, pulls up and stands holding on to my legs, and now I'm stuck. (Side note: Casey and I laughed yesterday at the shared revelation that we both sometimes "run away" from the baby while in the kitchen so he/she won't pull up on our legs.)

Thankfully, Jon arrived home at 6:30 as the plates were being served. (With a drive all the way from Long Beach with plenty of traffic, he is already making plenty of effort just trying to be home by 6:30.) And eating together was wonderful. (Levi still needs some work, but hey, he's 1. And he usually goes to bed by 7:00.) Nate even took several bites of a food he thought he would hate.

Then, after dinner (when Levi was in bed), I noticed that play time/reading time with Nate and Lucy was more fun, probably because Jon and I weren't hungry and/or trying to fix another dinner. Another wonderful benefit was that Jon's and my time after we put the kids to bed is now "free." Although eating dinner together just the two of us was pleasant, now we can have that time for other things.

Last night (Thursday) was another family dinner (we have Tuesday and Wednesday evening commitments out of the house) and it also went well, this time with only Levi fussing up a storm beforehand (instead of Levi and Lucy both). :) That's what I call progress!

Gluten-free giveaway

I just entered the cookbook giveaway on this blog and promised I'd post about it on my blog. :)

Family dinner

ometimes I feel like I spend half of my mothering just feeling guilty for the things I'm not doing well or should be doing differently. One of those things has been family dinners. We don't do them. The routine started off that way because Jon almost always got home from work at 7:00 or later, which meant bed time was fast approaching. Combine that with the fact that our kids are the kind who start pant-leg-pulling and "begging" for dinner around 4:00, and you don't have a very easy recipe for family dinner. So, I took the "easy" road and made dinner for the kids at 5:00 and made a separate dinner for Jon and me to eat at 8:00 once the kids were in bed. Terrible, I know. It was just easier this way (easier logistically/schedule-wise, anyway), and hey, then we got to eat our own dinner in peace. But I've always hated it, deep down, because I know the value of eating together around the table every evening. I did it growing up, and I know that's where you reconnect as a family, teach/learn table manners, learn to participate in conversation, etc.

Now Jon gets home from work a little earlier most days, and our kids are older and better able to understand why they have to wait. So, starting today, we are having family dinners. I'll give the kids a 4:30ish snack, and then we'll eat dinner as a family. What a novel idea. I can hardly wait! :)

Invitations the cheap way

We're having a small get-together this Saturday for Levi's birthday. To make the invitations, I found a basic one I liked on Tiny Prints (the one I picked is here). Then, I just used Microsoft Publisher to recreate it myself. I uploaded my creation onto Snapfish as a picture and ordered the appropriate number of prints. Voila--easy invitations for 10 cents each instead of over a dollar each!

Here's my creation:



Here are some more detailed instructions if you need them. (These are intended for those of you without awesome programs like Photoshop and also without amazing computer skills!)

• Open Publisher and start with a custom-sized blank page; I did mine 4 inches by 6 inches, since that was the size invitation/picture I wanted to end up with
• Using the Objects/shapes toolbar, create some rectangles--one in the upper left corner, one spanning the bottom half. To color them in, double click on a rectangle and choose the "fill" and "line" colors. You'll notice I left a little bit of space between each of my rectangles; this created the white space you see.
• Again using the shapes toolbar, select a circle and create one the size you like. Color it appropriately, then copy/paste it several times and line them up to create a line of circles. Group all of those circles together by holding down the Ctrl key and clicking on each circle. After you click on each one, right click on one of them and select "Group." Now copy/paste the line of circles twice, and you have three lines of circles. Arrange appropriately.
• Create another, larger circle; fill it with white and make the line the same color as the circles at the bottom of the invite. Put it in the upper left-hand rectangle.
• Create a text box by clicking "Insert" then "Text Box." Put the text box in the top rectangle and create the text you want (e.g., "It's Levi's 1st birthday!") in the font you like (mine is called Pupcat and I got it from 1001freefonts.com). Color the text by highlighting it and choosing the font color.
• Create another text box to put inside the white circle, and type a 1 (or appropriate number) in the font and color you like.
• Now it's time for the wording in the bottom rectangle. I used WordArt, which is the "A" on the Objects toolbar. (You could also just insert another text box.) If you use WordArt, click the A on the toolbar, choose the type of WordArt you want, then type in your text, including line breaks. After you click OK, you can arrange the WordArt as desired and also right-click on it, format it and choose colors.
• The black text at the bottom of my invite is just a text box.
• Find a cute picture, and copy/paste it into your Publisher file. Resize it and crop it so it fits in the upper right-hand space you've so far left empty. (Resizing and cropping can be done using the Picture toolbar in Publisher.)
• Once everything is arranged how you'd like, you have to group everything together. Hold down the Ctrl key and press A. (This should highlight all items.) Then right-click and choose "Group Objects."
• Now right-click on the invitation, and choose "Save As Picture." Choose a name for your new picture file, and make sure to Save As Type: JPEG.

Now you have a picture file for your invitation, ready to upload to Snapfish or Shutterfly or print out on your computer. :)

Miscellanies

e are dealing with sickness here this week. I thought Nate had caught Lucy/Levi's cold, but how could that be since it seems like he has now given it back to them? (Ahh, the only kind of sharing we don't want our kids to do.) There's a chance it's the flu, but so far everyone's OK... just fussy and whiny.

In the meantime, I did a little refashion yesterday. Jon brought home several of these free Clippers shirts, and I thought I'd make some changes so I could wear one to a game this season without looking frumpy. Note to self for next time: make sure the shirt you're going to model the refashion after has the same amount of stretch as the shirt to be cut!

Before:



After:

Some fun blogs

his is a fun new site I was tipped onto today: Daily Drop Cap. I might have to start all my blog posts this way!

I thought it'd be fun to list my favorite crafting blogs. I visit them weekly (if not daily).

Lil Blue Boo - she made the pattern I bought to make all those t-shirt dresses for Lucy
Make It and Love It - lots of free tutorials
Made - she makes cute things for her daughter, who is also named Lucy.
Stop Staring and Start Sewing - I've used several of her tutorials, especially the easy bias hem.
My Mama Made It - she does lots of fun t-shirt refashions that usually include ruffles. :)
Ruffles and Stuff - more cute tutorials.

There are more, but those are my favorites.

Free dress

I made a dress for Lucy today out of one of my sweaters that was too short for me. I also used one of Lucy's old shirts to trim the new dress at the hem and where the neck was too big. It was a quick and satisfying project!



And here is what Lucy thinks about trying things on for me:

Sweet brothers

So big!

Dress-up fun