Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Vacation miscellanies

Nate is off this week and next from school, so we're taking it easy around here. It sure is nice not having to rush in the morning to get all of us out of the house by 8:10.

We are doing a low-key Christmas with Jon's family this year. I've made a few gifts for people and hope to take some pictures before I give them (though it's too late for a few items).

Oh, Lucy is in the middle of a language explosion, as they call it. She's putting three words together all of a sudden (just two or three weeks ago, she wasn't even putting two words together) and finally gets the concept of saying please and thank you. (I'm sure she got the concept before, but now she realizes she actually gets what she wants faster if she complies with the manners requirement instead of fighting it.) She is also pronouncing everything much clearer and can even say her own name perfectly.

Here are some recent pictures!





Monday, December 15, 2008

Our tree

Jon picked up a tree on Saturday, and the kids (Nate especially) were so excited to decorate it. I did a little redistributing of the ornaments later, since they all ended up in a 1-foot-by-1-foot section on the tree. (I remember my mom saying this happened to our tree too when we were little.) Nothing special this year--just a small tree with lights and some favorite ornaments. We still need a star for the top!



Saturday, December 13, 2008

The boys

When Levi was first born, I wrote that he looked like neither Nate nor Lucy. But we've come to decide he looks a lot like Nate. Here are some pictures.

Nate first:


And Levi:


Another of Nate:


And Levi:


Nate had darker hair and more of it, but we see a lot of similarities in the boys' faces, noses, and expressions. Fun, huh?

Here is another picture from today of Levi showing off how much he is filling out. He's a month old today! :)

Eating habits

I've noticed that some of my friends' children really don't seem to care when (or if) they eat. My nieces and nephew never seem to be interested in eating; something else more interesting is always going on. I can see how this might be frustrating, since we know we need to get some nutrition in our kids.

But then there are kids like ours. Oh my. The moment their eyes open in the morning, they are asking for breakfast. Lucy walks around saying, "Cheese? Cheese?! Cheese!" Nate wants to know if it's time for pancakes yet. Not very long after they eat a very full breakfast, they start asking questions about when lunch is. On weekends, Lucy eats her large breakfast (example: 3 Trader Joe's pancakes, 2 cheese sticks, half a banana), then 20 minutes later she's trying to charm Jon into giving her some of his. (She kisses and hugs his leg and makes puppy dog eyes at him.)

The worst hour of the day is the hour before their dinner time. They follow me around, asking for food, when's dinner ready? what time is dinner tonight? what are you going to make? pulling on my leg. It's getting a bit better, but some days I wish our kitchen had a door so I could lock the children out while I get their food ready!

I really don't think the issue is whether or not I feed them enough; they eat a ton and also get a morning snack and afternoon snack.

So I guess it's hard no matter which way your kids are: if they are not interested in food at all, you struggle during meal time to get them to actually eat (but the rest of the day is easier); if they are food lovers (e.g., Nate & Lucy), meal time is great because they're happy and they eat like little piggies (but the rest of the day can be torture if they're always asking for food). How are your kids?

Friday, December 12, 2008

Zzzzzzz

I have had a real slowdown in posts! But all I can think to write when I come on to post is, "I'm tired." :) Oh, and Levi has his first cold, caught from the rest of us. :( Here are some pictures!





And if you have never heard The Mom Song, here's one version. Too funny!

Sunday, December 07, 2008

Tonight

We've had a nice weekend here. Jenny took Nate and Lucy for another half day of fun yesterday. This time they spent the day at Jenny and Drew's house making crafts, including Christmas ornaments (so cute).

Levi slept pretty much 24 hours a day for the first two weeks. Since then (about 10 days), he has slept all day and been up more at night. It could be worse, I'm sure, but I'm trying everything in my arsenal to get him to sleep at night. Last night, I tried the cozy cocoon for the first time and will use it again tonight. Besides the sleep, at least he is nursing well!

Here are Nate and Lucy tonight, ready for bed.

Thursday, December 04, 2008

Big sister

Lucy was definitely still the baby of the family before Levi was born, so I expected his arrival home (and then his not leaving) would affect her a lot. I wondered if she would take out her frustrations on him. Although I think there is some acting out going on (testing lots of limits), mostly Lucy just loves on Levi. She loves giving him kisses and hugs and patting his back (especially the patting the back--I think because it involves some near-hitting). She brings him toys and places them on him (including on his face). She says his name (Wee-vi) any time she sees him; usually she says it in this funny whine-voice (sort of in the tone of, "Wee-vi... He's still here!"). She is becoming a sweet big sister. :)




Monday, December 01, 2008

Big brother

What a sweet brother Nate is to Levi. If Levi makes any noise, Nate asks, "What's wrong, baby Levi?" He loves introducing him as "my baby Levi" at school to teachers and other kids. When Levi is lying swaddled on the couch, Nate has gone up to him several times and told him a Bible story (video at the bottom; it might be hard to hear, but it's part of the Adam and Eve story and includes Romans 3:23 and John 3:16). Up until tonight, Nate has asked to hold Levi quite a few times but always gives him back after just 2 or 3 seconds. Tonight, he held him for a while and was very proud (I added the second picture to show Lucy being silly):





Sunday, November 30, 2008

Quick pics

Nate and Lucy the other night (doesn't Lucy have long fingers?):



And Levi last night with some toys Lucy thought he should have:

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Bath time

Levi had his first bath yesterday. He didn't love or hate it, but he did startle a few times when I didn't have my hand on him. He still looks pretty red/yellow, doesn't he? At his 2-week check-up today, the doctor wasn't concerned about that. He weighs 5 pounds 13 ounces--a 10-ounce gain from his birth weight, which is great.



Nate and Lucy tonight after their bath.


Saturday, November 22, 2008

Bye bye, Mimi!

Well, I've made it through 24 hours without Mama. :)

Actually, things are going wonderfully here. There's something about having your kids healthy again that makes you appreciate how great they normally are. I remember feeling much more desperate and unprepared after Mama left when Lucy was born. It's too early to say, but maybe my transition from two to three will be easier than from one to two! How about you? Mamas of two or more: what was the most difficult transition?

Nate is off with Jon at a turkey bowl/touch football game at church; Lucy is napping (I think); I just mopped and put in a load of laundry; and Levi is ready to eat. But first, pictures of the kids in the prize Nate picked from the treasure box at school:

Thursday, November 20, 2008

From yesterday and today








P.S. Levi is done with the phototherapy blankets as of yesterday evening. Cool!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Another update

This has been a week of survival mode! Nate is better. Lucy is not all the way better, but at least there's no more throwing up. :) Levi is doing very well, though he's still under the lights. He has another test today and I anticipate they'll say he can be done in the lights by the end of the day. Yay!

Some more pictures.





Monday, November 17, 2008

Spoke too soon

Did I say Lucy was on the tail end of the sickness? Maybe not. Up much of the night with her last night. This is by far the worst sickness either of the children has ever had. I am SO glad my mom is here!

I'm taking Levi to the doctor today to have his tests run. He still looks jaundiced but I'm hoping the numbers have kept improving.

Oh, and here are two new pics... One from the hospital and one of Levi looking like a glow worm! :)


Sunday, November 16, 2008

Very quick update

We are home, and we are busy! Nate and Lucy were both very sick beginning Thursday night (the day Levi was born). Lucy is on the tail end now, but Nate is still in the midst of a killer bug. May be the stomach flu. Levi and I came home yesterday (should have been 11:00 a.m. but ended up being 7:00 p.m.!). His bilirubin levels were a bit high, so we have him under the blue blanket lights--they make him look like a glow worm. :) He stays in the lights all the time except for feeding, when 30 minutes are allowed. Good thing he is a sleepy, great baby, because he hasn't really fussed much at all. My mom and I took him back in to the hospital this morning to have his blood drawn for the test again, and we still have him in the lights. He goes in to the doctor again tomorrow. That's all for now!

Friday, November 14, 2008

Levi's birth story

On Tuesday night, we were up quite a few times with Lucy, who was sick. I think something about getting up and down very quickly multiple times overnight did something, and I woke on Wednesday morning wondering if I had had a leak. I spent all day Wednesday feeling uneasy, wondering if I was imagining things or just feeling weird or something. Once I finally called the phone nurse that evening, she recommended I come in to be checked. I waited until Jon got home, and we made it to the hospital at 11:00 p.m. They checked my fluid and confirmed it was indeed amniotic, so they admitted me at 1:30 a.m. I wasn't completely mentally prepared for this, as I was 35 weeks along and planning for at least a couple more weeks of pregnancy! I hadn't even brought anything (like a camera) other than my purse with me along to the hospital. Oh well!

I was having contractions pretty regularly, and they started to progress a little bit, but not much. The doctor wanted to start me on pytocin, but I asked instead that they let me labor for a while, then check me and also break my water the rest of the way; the doc agreed. I asked my nurse several times through the night when I could get up out of bed, since I knew that would help the contractions progress, but she kept saying no. I could tell she was a new nurse, and knowing my history of quick labor with Lucy, she didn't want anything bad to happen (I guess). So I spent a few hours in the bed, watching my contractions being monitored on the computer screen.

At 5:00 a.m., when my contractions had gotten quite a bit stronger, the doctor checked me, and I was at a disappointing (to me) 1.5 cm. She broke my water, which I was sure would really jump start things, considering my labor with Lucy (water breaks = baby born!). But instead, my contractions stopped! I guess when she broke my water, my blood pressure went way down. (Incidentally, this is the only time I slept all night; I took a nap for about 20 minutes--my blood pressure must have been really low.) They put me on some oxygen, and I agreed to have some pytocin, which they started around 7:00. This is when they finally let me get up out of bed.

I spent the morning laboring, visiting with Neil, Casey, and Bennett, and walking around the room. Contractions were getting much stronger, but I could still talk through them.

Around 11:30, I was pretty uncomfortable, and the nurse checked me: 4 cm. Hmm. Contractions were no fun at this point. I'm not Superwoman, so I asked for an epidural. During the hour-and-a-half wait for the epidural, my contractions kept getting worse and worse. Casey came again and visited with me (while Jon rested on the window seat), but our conversation had to stop every 2-3 minutes while I focused and breathed through a contraction.

The anesthesiologist arrived. He started explaining the risks and benefits of the epidural while I ignored him through a contraction. Mid-sentence, he asked in good humor, "Do you even care what I'm saying right now?" "No," I moaned. He gave me the epidural, which took a little while so I had to remain completely still during several very strong contractions. Ahhh, relief!

Within 2 minutes, my doctor came in and checked me. "She's complete!" she exclaimed. Yes, I had made it to 10 cm before even getting the epidural. The baby was at +1 station, which meant he was low and pretty ready to come out. Dr. Raffo had to do a scheduled c-section right then, so I waited (happily, since the epidural had kicked in). My nurse turned off the epidural, so no new medicine was coming in, but I was still numb. Just a few minutes later, though, even through the numbness, I thought I might feel the urge to push. I told the nurse; she checked me and declared the baby was at +3 station (VERY ready to come out). I held tight (quite literally) while we waited for Dr. Raffo. The baby's heart rate was starting to dip really low during each contraction, and I had to really try not to push, so the nurse called for a different doctor to deliver immediately. Just then, Dr. Raffo arrived.

I pushed through two contractions, able to feel a little bit through the epidural medicine, and Levi was born! They had told me earlier that I might not get to hold the baby right away since he was premature and may need to be taken immediately to the isolette for the neonatologist to check him out, but Levi cried out on his own right away, so I got to hold him for a moment. His APGARS were 8 and 9--he was teeny tiny but healthy! His hair seemed blonde when he was first born, but it looks brown today. He doesn't look much like either Nate or Lucy, especially his little mouth and chin. I am so glad he's here!



Nate and Lucy came to meet their brother a few hours after he was born. Nate was SO excited to get to hold him. He held him long enough for Jon to snap one picture, and then he enthusiastically said, "Here you go!" and lovingly but quickly handed him right back to me.



Jon said that Lucy kept saying "Wee-vi, Wee-vi!" in the car all the way to the hospital. When she saw him, she didn't know quite what to think, and she isn't a big fan of someone holding him instead of her. She warmed up to him a little bit, though, especially while Colleen was holding him.



Thursday, November 13, 2008

Introducing...

Introducing

Levi Paul Varela
Born November 13 at 1:53 p.m.
5 pounds, 3 ounces
18.5 inches long

Healthy and precious!

Our sweet boy decided to come a little early! We are all doing great; I'll post more information soon.