We are going to Virginia next month. I leave with Nate May 17, and Jon arrives May 20. Then our friends Neil and Casey arrive the next day! I am so excited they are coming. I was so thrilled and a bit surprised when they booked their tickets and it was true they were actually coming; so often, you talk about these kinds of things with friends, saying, "We should get together for dinner some time," or "We should all go to such-and-such one weekend," but it never happens. It is actually happening with Neil and Casey! They are definitely follow-through friends, and it is one of the reasons I love them. :)
The five of us will probably stay at Hanshill, the house in the country (15 minutes away from my parents' house). My parents will probably stay at their house at night. It will be so nice to relax, enjoy the not-too-hot-or-humid-yet weather, go on walks, explore, read, eat together, etc.
Then on Wednesday, May 24, we will leave Nate with my parents, and the four of us will drive the three hours to Washington, D.C. and spend three nights there. Neil, Jon, and I have never been to D.C. except for driving/flying through. We're going to stay in one room at the Washington Marriott. And it looks like we are going to be able to get a private tour of the White House, as Jon's cousin is in the Secret Service! We are all very excited about that. We haven't scheduled any other activities, but I'm sure we will eat good food, visit a museum or two, see some monuments (Mount Vernon is on the list), and have a wonderful time. Jon and I are going to consider this trip our fourth anniversary gift to each other.
Neil and Casey fly out of D.C. on the 27th, and Jon and I will drive back to Lynchburg, where he flies out late that afternoon. Nate and I will stay with my parents for several more days before flying home on May 31.
Although I'm really looking forward to a refreshing few days with Jon, I'm pretty nervous about leaving Nate with my parents while we go to D.C. The nervousness has nothing to do with my parents' ability to take care of him; it's more because he has spent nearly every moment of every day with me for the past year (more if you count the pregnancy). I'm sure the separation will be harder on me than on Nate, but I still have a worried feeling in the recesses of my heart that he will somehow be emotionally damaged. I know, I know, it sounds crazy. If he could understand language, I would already be preparing him and talking every day about the fun time he is going to have with Granny and Papa (those are not the official names yet, as my mom keeps wavering on what she wants to be called and my dad hasn't said one word about a name for him) while Daddy and Mama go on a trip. Since I can't do that with him yet, I'm left with this nervous feeling and know that I just need to pray! :)
Wednesday, April 19, 2006
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We can hardly wait for all of you to get here! I bet we all stay at Hanshill most nights - if we can fit. Remember, the Lemonds will also be here from Little Rock!
And beleive it or not, I remember feeling the same uneasiness you descibed about leaving you and Greg the first time. The best part is, you will be here for a week before you leave Nate so he will be very used to being with us!
Love,Mama
I'm glad I'm not alone in feeling this way!
It would be really fun if we all stayed out in Hanshill. I will be proud of Daddy if he does. He always seems to go back to town to sleep.
out in Hanshill = out at Hanshill...
How wonderful! What a great trip you have planned. :) You know--I've been meaning to go to DC for months now to visit friends, so maybe I can schedule my visit at the same time as yours so that we could meet up for lunch or something at some point. Of course, I'd be sad not to meet Nate, but it would be wonderful to spend a little time with you! If this would be any sort of imposition, I understand and won't be offended if it won't work out; I was just thinking "out loud."
And I realize how silly this is going to sound, but whenever I see a picture of Britney Spears, I just die a little bit inside. How in the world can she go off without her child for so long! Of course, I don't know her, so she might actually be a wonderful and loving mother, but it just seems like she's not very interested in nurturing or even paying attention to this little life that she bore.
I'm sure Nate will have a wonderful time with his grandparents! I'm sure that you can help him acclimate for a few days before you leave by having your mom and dad put him down for naps and similar things. Of course, I'm probably still many years away from having any first-hand experience, but that's my novice view.
Will Lucy be home by this time?
Hi Nell!
That would be very cool to see you for lunch! We are going to be in DC during the days on Thursday and Friday, May 25 and 26. What do you think?
That's what I was thinking too about helping Nate get acclimated to VA--having my mom do some of the normal routine things like feeding or putting down for naps, etc. I know Nate will do well.
And yes, Lucy will be home from school by this time. And Greg, who lives in the same town my parents do but in a different house, will have just graduated from college (I'll just miss the party!). :)
Hey Sister!
i just want to let you know that i will do everything i can to be sure that we don't emotionally damage nate while he's with us :-D
haha i can completely understand (well as much as i possibly can without having the experience myself) being a little worried about leaving him.
well i can't wait for you guys to be here! love you
Lucy
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